The Things People Say is a collection of 25 unique photographs that display a phrase or word that has been said to the subject. This project was inspired by the many hurtful comments that are said everyday. The common old saying “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me” is far from the truth. Words can be daggers to the heart and mind. Words can add to insecurities and damage confidence. And that is why I wanted to capture this very important message. I wanted to raise awareness that people should be speaking up, instead overlooking these comments.
I asked friends and peers to give me one word or phrase that has been said to them and how it affected them. Most of the times, they justified that the person didn’t mean what they said. However, the most common response was that they couldn’t think of anything. I believe the reason for this struggle is that these comments have become so normalized in our society that it is hard to think differently about them. Once the subjects started to open up about these hurtful comments, they said were said by parents and close friends. The most hurtful comments are made by people we know. This is not because of a lack of caring or friendship, its because the use of these words and phrases have become acceptable in our society. Many people say these things in a joking matter - but how these comments make people feel is definitely not something to joke about.
This project was produced on the campus of Valley Christian High School in San Jose, California, which is the school I just graduated from this spring. I used a blank wall that I found outside of the one of the buildings to shoot everY photograph. The only equipment I used was a Canon EOS Rebel T6 Camera with a 50mm fixed lens along with paper and a sharpie to create the messages. I had no studio lighting, no fancy equipment, no assistant - just me, a camera, the subject, and help some from photoshop. This project was made within 8 weeks of the school year and was a creative project for my Photographic Design 2 class.
Photos Taken in 2018